无论说得多么天花乱坠，也无论承认与否，交际本身是带有功利色彩的，就好比吃饭是为了活着，活着不是为了吃饭一样。蒙书《明贤集》里有句名言：“结交须胜己，似我不如无”。此则古训，初读含英咀华，充满了哲理和智慧，再细品感觉却令人生疑，豁然开朗后又打了个死结，即开? No matter how superfluous, regardless of whether or not to recognize, communication itself is utilitarian, like eating is to live, not live to eat the same. The book “Mingxianji” there is a famous saying: “make a victory must be, if I am better than nothing.” This is the ancient motto, first read with the British Tsui Wah, full of philosophy and wisdom, then fine feeling is suspicious, suddenly hit a dead knot, that is, open?