新加坡少年儿童教育专家袁凤珠女士认为:孩子走向独立,朋友起很大作用。少年朋友之间彼此模仿,自己学习面对困难,而且互相支持、互相尊重,所以少年们在一起有安全感。他们认为友谊至关重要,而和父母有时没有共同的话题,是因为父母爱说教,随时指责孩子的缺点,所以与长辈在一起,觉得很拘谨,与朋友在一起,自在又没有顾忌。 Ms. Yuan Fengzhu, an adolescent education expert in Singapore, believes that children play an important role in independence. Teenagers imitate one another, learn to face difficulties, and support each other, respect each other, so young people together have a sense of security. They think friendship is of paramount importance, and there are times when parents and parents sometimes have no common topic because their parents love to preach and are constantly accusing their children of shortcomings. Therefore, being with their elders, they feel very cautious and stay with their friends without any scruples.