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在一次工作检查中,一位老板询问一个雇员对与同事合作是否有问题,“绝对没有!”雇员回答说,但他却无意识地表露出有问题,老板担忧地皱起眉。为什么呢?“当人们不知道是否要相信他们所听到的或看到的一切时,他们便结合身体语言——它显示出真相,”加利弗尼亚州议会的管理顾问奥斯汀(N.Austin)说。“你可以在语言上出尔反尔,但在动作上这样做就难得多了。” 有位妈妈发现她两岁的女儿爬进她放化妆品的抽屉中,浑身涂满了眼睑膏。“你再也不许玩这个东西了!”妈妈宣布说,但她忍不住要笑出来。
During a job check, a boss asks an employee whether there is a problem with working with a colleague, “Absolutely not!” The employee replied, but he unconsciously showed a problem and the boss frowned with concern. Why? “When people do not know if they want to believe everything they have heard or seen, they combine body language - it shows the truth,” Austin N. N., Managing Consultant, Council of the State of California. Austin said. “You can be linguistically arrogant, but it’s a lot harder to do that.” One mother found her two-year-old daughter crawling into her drawer of cosmetics, covered with eyelid cream. “You no longer have to play this thing!” Mom announced, but she could not help laughing.