人生“三情”:亲情、友情、爱情。三情俱备,才能充分满足一个人生理和心理的需要。青春期的青少年随着生理和心理的发展变化,父母兄弟姐妹的亲情已不能完全满足他们的精神需求,便开始寻求友情——同性和异性的友情。但由于受中国传统文化和现代性解放思潮的双重影响,社会和中学 Life “Three Feelings”: affection, friendship, love. The three conditions are needed to fully satisfy a person’s physiological and psychological needs. As adolescent adolescents change with physical and psychological development, the parents’ siblings’ family relationships cannot fully meet their spiritual needs and they begin to seek friendships – friendships of the same sex and opposite sex. However, due to the dual influence of Chinese traditional culture and the liberation of modernity, social and high school