1最近发生了一件让我比较郁闷的事情。有个读者在微信上找我聊天,说她今年25岁,已经工作了两年,可在职场上总是不如意。尤其最近的一份新工作,她觉得身边的同事都在针对她,吃饭不叫她,工作上嫌弃她,还会嘲笑她的穿着打扮。她举了一些实际的例子。比如,到了饭点,有人站起来喊了句“走啊,吃饭去!”很多人就都起来一起下楼了,她不明白为什么没人到座位上喊她一声,这也太冷漠了。可这在我看来,其实是挺正常的事情。我帮她分析说,这并不是 1 Recently a thing that made me more depressed. There is a reader looking for me to chat in WeChat, saying she is 25 years old and has been working for two years. She is always unhappy in the workplace. Especially in her recent job, she feels her colleague is targeting her. She does not call her for dinner, but also laughs at her job and laughs at her dress. She cites some practical examples. For example, at the meal, someone stood up and shouted “Go, eat!” A lot of people got up and went downstairs, she did not understand why no one called her to the seat, which is too indifferent . But this seems to me, in fact, is quite normal. I helped her analysis that this is not