古人云:“养不教,父之过”,“高标准、严要求”是我们培养孩子时时常采用的准则。因此、在教育孩子时、有些家长习惯于将眼光盯在孩子的缺点与短处上。在家长那喋喋不休的训斥与指责中,孩子会慢慢地学会自我否定、撒谎与反抗。如果父母以正面的、积极的、健康的、亮丽的角度去审视孩子,结果又会如何呢?让我 The ancients said: “No education, father too,” “high standards, strict requirements” is our training children often used guidelines. Therefore, when educating their children, some parents are accustomed to keeping their eyes on the shortcomings and shortcomings of their children. In the chatter and reproach of parents, the child slowly learns self-denial, lying and resistance. What if the parents looked at the child in a positive, positive, healthy, and beautiful way?