三观,即世界观、价值观、人生观。要和三观相合的人结婚,因为这样才不累。倒不是说,三观不合的人一定不能在一起,只是三观不合的婚姻,如果想安稳走下去,需要双方付出的改变会非常多,必定要有一个人迁就另一个人的价值观。虽然婚姻里要相互妥协,但习惯可以适应,脾气可以忍受,要一个人完全背离自己的主观意识去迎 Three views, namely the world outlook, values, outlook on life. Marry people who are in harmony with the Three Concepts because they are not tired. Not to say that people with different views must not be able to be together. It is only a marriage of three different perspectives. If you want to move on smoothly, there will be a lot of changes that both parties will have to pay. There must be one person relocating to the other’s values. Although the marriage to compromise, but the habit can be adapted, temper can tolerate, to a person completely deviate from their subjective consciousness to greet