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同事被评为先进模范,获了奖,表面上庆祝,内心却酸溜溜的,有种失落感;大腕、大款在星级宾馆里吃“龙”喝“凤”,自己在街头排档里吃菜喝汤,心里不是滋味;看见别人高高兴兴地搬进宽敞、明亮、豪华的别墅,自己却几代同堂挤在一间狭小的房间里,便有一种自渐形秽之感…….这种反差强烈,自叹不如,欲求不满的心理现象,就是我们所说的心态失衡.当今社会是个反差极为强烈,而且普遍存在的社会.这种反差不只是体现在经济利益上,也体现在名誉、成就、地位、权力、机会等方面,使人们在与他人的比较中始终处于欲求不满的境地.这种现实的反差和不平衡,以及欲望的不满足反映在人的头脑中就是心理的不平衡,即心态失衡.几乎每个人都有过心态失衡的时候,或者正处在心态失衡、无法解脱的境地,只不过人们心态失衡的程度、持续的时间以及所持的态度不同而已.
Colleagues were rated as advanced model, won the award, on the surface to celebrate, but sour heart, a kind of sense of loss; big names, big money in the star hotel to eat “dragon” drink “phoenix”, his food stalls in the street food Soup, my heart is not the taste; see others happily moved into the spacious, bright, luxurious villas, but their own generations, crowded together in a small room, there is a sense of self-contaminating ... ... This The kind of psychological contrast that is characterized by strong contrasts, disapproval and desire to dissatisfaction is what we call the imbalance of mentality. Today’s society is an extremely strong and ubiquitous society. This contrast is not only reflected in the economic interests but also reflected in the reputation , Achievements, status, power, opportunities, etc., so that people in the comparison with others is always in a situation of dissatisfaction with desire .This reality of contrast and imbalance, and the dissatisfaction of desire is reflected in the minds of people is psychological Balance, that is, the imbalance of mind.Almost everyone has had a state of mind imbalance, or is in a state of mind imbalance, can not be relieved, but people’s attitude imbalance, the duration of the attitude and hold different Only.