许多父母“恨铁不成钢”．却不懂如何使“铁”变成“钢”。父母投入的是时间与爱心，子女是否成才则靠他们自己有无健全的人格比学习成绩好更重要 怎样才能更好地教育孩子？无论什么时代，这都会是一个常新的命题。 学校是孩子受教育的主渠道，家庭及其构成的社会则是孩子成长 Many parents “hate iron and steel.” But do not know how to make “iron” into “steel.” Parents invest time and love, children rely on their own sound personality is better than the academic performance is more important How can we better educate children? No matter what era, this will be a new proposition. The school is the main channel for children’s education. The family and the society formed by it are the children’s growth