你知道这样一句话吗?——“要想对方成为怎样的人,就评价他是怎样的人。”这句话是有心理学方面的依据的。还是让我们引用下述两个实例来说明有关现象吧。 美国儿童心理学家詹姆斯·温叙述说:一个大家都认为无可救药的孩子被带到他那儿去治疗。这个孩子刚到那儿时,似乎很不高兴,一句话也不说。但他从孩子父亲不经意地说出的一句话中找到了病因。孩子父亲对他说:“这个孩子没有任何优点,我从来没有见过这么糟糕的孩子。”于是,他努力去 Do you know such a sentence? - “If you want each other to be what kind of person, to evaluate who he is.” This sentence is psychologically based. Or let us cite the following two examples to illustrate the phenomenon. American psychologist James Wen narrated: “Everyone who finds it beyond redemption is taken to his place for treatment. The child did not seem happy when he got there, without saying anything. But he found the euphemism from a sentence his child’s father said inadvertently. The child’s father said to him: ”This child has no merits, I have never seen such a bad child." So he tried