时下,很多现代家长崇尚对孩子实行励志教育,他们喜欢让孩子活在自己为之营造的积极向上的氛围中。然而,过犹不及。一些家长喜欢过多地参与孩子的学习和人生规划,使得孩子不能保持人生的自在状态,虽然他们学习不错,却承受着很重的心理负荷,甚至有可能把他们压垮。本文中的父亲就是这样一位家长——— Nowadays, many modern parents advocate the implementation of motivational education for their children, they like to let their children live in their own positive and create a positive atmosphere. However, too fast. Some parents like to participate too much in children’s learning and life planning, so that children can not maintain their ease of life. Although they study well, they are under a heavy psychological burden and may even crush them. The father of this article is such a parent ---