在成功心理学看来.判断一个人是不是成功,最主要的是看他是否最大限度地发挥了自己的优势。成功学家通过研究发现,人类有400多种优势。这些优势本身的数量并不重要,最重要的是家长应该知道自己的孩子优势是什么,之后要做的则是努力使孩子的生活、工作和事业发展都建立在他(她)的优势之上,这样孩子就容易成功了。研究者发现.尽管其路径各异,但成功者都有 In the opinion of successful psychology, the most important thing to judge whether a person is successful is to see whether he has given full play to his strengths. Through the research, successful scholars have found that there are more than 400 kinds of advantages for mankind. The number of these advantages themselves is not important. The most important thing is that parents should know what their children are. What they need to do is strive to make their children’s life, work and career development based on their strengths. , So children are easy to succeed. The researchers found that, despite their different paths, those who succeed have it