1、培养孩子的自主性家长要有意识地减少对孩子的溺爱与迁就,从小培养孩子的独立生活能力,给孩子更多自我锻炼、自我服务的机会,提高孩子的适应能力。其次,注重给孩子自主权,经常倾听孩子的观点,让孩子在家庭决策中起一定作用。2、进行适当挫折教育家长要对孩子进行恰当的挫折教育,锻炼孩子在困难和挫折面前不低头的坚强 1, develop children’s autonomy Parents should consciously reduce spoiled and accommodate children, childhood children’s independent living ability to give children more self-exercise, self-service opportunities and improve children’s ability to adapt. Second, focus on giving children autonomy, often listening to children’s point of view, so that children play a role in family decision-making. 2, appropriate setbacks to education Parents should be appropriate to set up children’s education, exercise their children in the face of difficulties and setbacks not dull strong