第三我给大家几个小技俩儿比如说一、你可以给他设点阻碍提升他期待的张力。比如,你家小孩开始跟你说,别的孩子都学琴了,我也要学琴,这时候,你就可以说:你现在太小,再等等,等我们长大再学,你可以设置一个让他期待的时间点,不断地提醒他,当那个时间到来的时候,你的愿望就可以实现了。这样,孩子越临近那个日子,他期待的张力就越强。 Third, I give you a few small tricks, such as a child, you can set him to hinder the promotion of the tension he is looking forward to. For example, your child starts to tell you that other children learn the piano, I have to learn the piano, this time, you can say: you are too small, wait, wait for us to grow up to learn, you can Set a time to let him expect, keep reminding him that when that time comes, your wish can be fulfilled. In this way, the closer the child is to that day, the stronger his expectation of tension.