心理学家阿德勒认为,父母往往根据自己的需要教育孩子,忽略儿童的主体性,这样儿童处于工具性的地位,容易产生自卑感。当自卑成为习惯杨心怡是成都一所重点中学的高二女生,不仅长得漂亮,学习成绩也不错,但她很害怕与人交往,特别是自己不熟悉的人。如果跟别人在 Adler psychologist believes that parents often educate their children according to their own needs, ignoring the subjectivity of children, so that children are in a tool position, prone to inferiority complex. When the inferiority became a habit Yang Xin is a high school girl in a key high school in Chengdu, not only looks beautiful, academic performance is not bad, but she is very afraid of contact with people, especially those who are not familiar with. If with others