有些孩子在家里很活泼大方,可一旦走出家门或碰到生人,却胆怯怕生,局促不安,有时做什么事都不能独立完成。这是什么原因呢?任何人与外界的接触,由生到熟,从少到多,都有一个社会化的过程。孩子出生以后,不是生活在真空里,而是处在一个复杂的社会环境中。孩子最初交往的对象就是自己的父母,后来扩大到周围的亲友和小伙伴。如果家长整天把孩子关在家里,不让他们与周围的人和事接触,孩子社会化的发展就会受到影响,胆怯怕生的现象就会产生。要教育这些孩子,首先要扩大他们的社会生活圈 Some children are very lively and generous at home. But once they get out of their home or encounter strangers, they are daunting, cramped, and sometimes they can not do anything independently. What is the reason? Anyone who has contact with the outside world, from birth to maturity, from less to more, has a socialized process. After a child is born, he does not live in a vacuum, but in a complex social environment. The first children to contact the object is their own parents, and later extended to the surrounding friends and relatives. If parents keep their children at home all day and keep them from touching people and things around them, the social development of children will be affected and the phenomenon of fear of being afraid of birth will arise. To educate these children, we must first expand their social life circle