“贴标签”能成就一个人,也能毁了一个人。在美国,有这样一件真事:一个著名棒球手到监狱做演讲,他讲述了自己的成长故事:小时候他第一次玩棒球,一不小心把父亲的牙打流血了,没想到,父亲却夸赞他说:“孩子,你日后肯定能成为一个优秀的棒球手。”第二次玩棒球,他把家里的玻璃打碎了,父亲还是没有责怪他,而是对他说:“打得好,孩子,你将来没准是世界冠军呢!”犯人们听到这个故事窃窃私语,一个犯人站起来说:“我小时的经历与 ”Labeling “ can accomplish one person, can also destroy one person. In the United States, there is such a thing: a famous baseball player to the prison to give a speech, he told his story of growth: a child when he first played baseball, accidentally bleed his father’s teeth, did not think his father But praised him, said: ”“ Child, you will certainly be able to become a good baseball player in the future. ”“ The second play baseball, he broke the glass at home, his father still did not blame him, but said to him: ”Play well, boy, maybe you might be a world champion in the future!“ ”When the prisoners heard the story whisper, a prisoner stood up and said:" My hour of experience