恨铁不成钢,急死亲爹娘,这话一点儿也不假。高投入的目的是为了高产出,这是人们心理平衡的自然反映。可是,许多父母遗憾地发现,自己是高投入低产出,甚至产出了相反的东西,于是,做父母的便恼怒起来。 父母的恼怒往往先用语言发泄,因为恼怒就什么都说,越说越狠。譬如,孩子做了错事,造成很大麻烦。有些父母说:“你呀！从小不学好,长大了是进监狱的料！”有的 Do not hate iron steel, urgently father and mother, these words are not false at all. The purpose of high investment is to high output, which is the natural reflection of people’s psychological balance. However, many parents find it regrettable that they are high input and low output, and even produce the opposite thing, so parents will be angry. The parents’ exasperation often vent their words first, because when you are angry, you say that the more you say, the more ruthless you are. For example, children have done wrong things, causing a lot of trouble. Some parents say, “You! I did not learn well from an early age and grew up to be in jail!”