常常会有人问我同一个问题,在我20几岁的时候,是不是也像她们这样被很多问题困扰,到底是什么促使我变成现在这样独立。如果真要分享一个蜕变,我觉得最大的变化是——我开始敢于承认自己就是不想和很多人活得一样。我不会因为这种不一样,而感到恐慌。很多人不是不想独立,而是不敢独立,害怕别人的否定。一个姑娘的成长会面对很奇怪的一个现象。 Often, people ask me the same question. When I was in my twenties, I was disturbed by so many problems like them. What exactly prompted me to become such independence now. If you really want to share a transformation, I think the biggest change is - I began to dare to admit that I just do not want to live with many people. I will not be scared because of this difference. Many people do not want to be independent, but they are not independent and afraid of the negation of others. A girl’s growth will face a very strange phenomenon.