父母常常以为孩子的很多东西是教育出来的,的确,但那是知识的一部分;其余的气质、教养等等都是养成的,即家里的习俗,这部分是文化。无疑,文化比知识重要。一个母亲生了重病,最大的恐惧不是死。而是担心孩子失去母亲。虽然这听起来是一回事,但其实是两个事。有时候觉得,和健康的人说一些事情,真是好难说清楚呢。此情此景,是只有到此情此景才能够明白的。总之,我必须尝试去解决这个问题。否则,即使活着,也活不下去。这听起来又矛盾了,但其实也并 Parents often think that a lot of their children are educated, indeed, but that is part of the knowledge; the rest of the temperament, upbringing, etc. are developed, that is, the customs of the family, this part of the culture. Undoubtedly, culture is more important than knowledge. A mother is seriously ill and the biggest fear is not death. But worried about children losing their mothers. Although this may sound the same thing, it is actually two things. Sometimes I think it’s hard to say something to a healthy person. This situation is only to this situation can understand. In short, I must try to solve this problem. Otherwise, even alive, can not survive. This may sound contradictory, but it does