最近的一项全国抽样调查显示,如今有23%的成年子女与父母从不交谈,41%的人较少交谈,而经常交谈的仅有36%。因为精神赡养匮乏,所以近年来家政服务中,老年人对精神陪护的需求相当多。伴随着生理机能的退化,步入老年的父母们逐渐产生一种失落感,表现在言行上,可能就是“落伍”、“摸不着脾气”,让子女心烦。其实,只要真正进入父母的内心世界,两代人就能变得亲密起来。 A recent national sample survey showed that 23% of adult children nowadays never talk to their parents, 41% talk less and 36% talk more frequently. Because of the lack of spiritual support, the demand for spiritual entourage among the elderly in recent years has been quite considerable. With the degeneration of the physiological function, the parents who enter old age gradually produce a feeling of loss. When they say what they say and do, they may be “out of date” or “out of touch with temper,” and upset their children. In fact, as long as the real inner world into their parents, two generations can become intimate.