一般人认为,父母跟孩子一起玩玩具是浪费时间。其实不然。大人花点点时间和孩子一起娱乐,可以看到孩子眼中的世界,帮助孩子发展主动性、好奇心、想象力,促进体力、心理、社会道德和智力的健康发展。我的儿子五岁半了。我给他买了一部四轮童车,并认真地参与儿子的玩童车游戏。我在游戏中注意对孩子观察,引导他玩好,使孩子在玩中得到发展。一、引导孩了的探究心理孩子看见崭新的童车,喜爱之心油然而生。他不停地拨弄着车子,擦净车身上的灰尘。一次,他不停地拨弄后轮两旁的两个小轮、我问他这是干什么,儿子回答:“爸爸的车两个轮,我的车后轮边为什么还要装两个小轮?”我没有立即回答他的问题,而是拿来三根筷子,一端用橡皮筋扎住,另一端散开,让儿子看它稳稳地立在地上,然后,我又让孩子抽掉一根 Most people think that it is a waste of time for parents to play toys with their children. actually not. When adults spend a little time entertaining with their children, they can see the world in the eyes of their children and help them develop initiative, curiosity and imagination so as to promote the healthy development of their physical, mental, social morals and intelligence. My son is five and a half years old. I bought him a four-wheeled stroller, and seriously involved in his son’s play stroller game. In the game, I pay attention to observe the children and guide him to play well so that the children can develop while playing. First, to guide the child to explore the psychological child to see a brand new baby carriage, the heart of love arises spontaneously. He kept fiddling with the car and wiping the dust off the car. Once, he kept fiddling with the two small rounds on both sides of the rear wheel. I asked him what he was doing. The son replied, “Daddy’s car has two wheels. Why does my rear wheel have two smaller wheels?” Instead of answering his question immediately, I brought three chopsticks, one end of which was anchored with rubber bands and the other end spread apart, letting my son see it standing firmly on the ground, and then I let the child pull one more