《幼儿园教育指导纲要(试行)》指出:“幼儿园教育应尊重幼儿的人格和权力,尊重幼儿身心发展规律和学习特点,……促进每个幼儿富有个性地发展。”发展个性、促进每个幼儿个性发展已成为当代幼儿教育的重要目标。现代心理学表明,幼儿期是人生个性开始形成期,是形成良好个性品质的重要时期,也是可塑性最强的时期。现在某些独生子女的性格中有许多消极方面,如自私、娇气、任性、不合群、缺乏同情心、独立生 “Kindergarten Education Guidance Outline (Trial)” states: “Kindergarten education should respect the personality and power of young children, respect the law of physical and mental development and learning characteristics of young children, ... and promote the development of individualism for each young child.” "Developing Individuality and Promoting Each Personal development of a child has become an important goal of contemporary preschool education. Modern psychology shows that early childhood is the beginning of the formation of life personality is an important period to form a good personality and quality, but also the strongest period of plasticity. There are many negative aspects of the character of some one-child children nowadays, such as selfishness, squeaminess, capriciousness, out-of-groupness, lack of compassion, independence