当中小学生产生不能实现的幻想时，他们最愿意倾诉的对象是母亲，最不愿意告诉的是老师。调查表明，这主要是由于母亲不打击、不否定、不嘲讽和愿意为孩子保守秘密；相反，部分老师在教育学生过程中方法不当，导致学生生厌。调查者同时给出了父母、兄弟、姐妹、同学、老师５种? When primary and secondary school students can not realize the fantasy, they are most willing to talk about the object of the mother, most do not want to tell is the teacher. The survey shows that this is mainly because mothers do not fight, do not deny, not ridicule and are willing to keep secrets for their children. On the contrary, some teachers improperly educate their students and cause students to become annoyed. Investigators also gave parents, brothers, sisters, classmates, teachers 5?