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我的孩子10岁了,最近我发现她不再和我无话不谈了,有些事情在我看来并不是什么秘密,可她却不告诉我,对此我很不理解,请问我该怎样对待? 北京杨淑芳随着年龄的增长,孩子对父母的依赖程度相对少了,不再与家长无话不说,开始有了自己的“小秘密”。对于这种情况,家长往往有这样几种情绪反应: 1.失落:有些家长习惯于孩子依赖自己,对自己无话不说,当孩子不再与家长无话不说时,往往很失落。 2.困惑:这时期孩子的“秘密”往往并不是什么重大的事情,在成人看来没有保密的必要,可孩子却坚持不让家长知道,这常使家长感到困惑。
My child is 10 years old and I recently found out that she no longer has time to talk to me. Something is not a secret to me, but she does not tell me that I do not understand. How do I Treat? Beijing Yang Shufang With age, children rely less on their parents, no longer talk to their parents, began to have their own “little secret.” For such cases, parents often have such emotional reaction: 1. Lost: Some parents accustomed to children rely on themselves, to say nothing of their own, when the children no longer talk to their parents are often lost. 2. Confusion: The “secret” of a child during this period is often not a big deal. It is not necessary for adults to keep it confidential. However, the child insists on not letting parents know. This often confuses parents.