家庭是教育孩子最重要的场所,而对于大多数只有一个孩子的中国父母来说,孩子的教育没有经验可言,要实现他们的梦,就是一场没有彩排的演出。因此,当家长的要善于学习、及时总结,掌握家庭教育的智慧。智慧9常帮孩子分析情势,千万不要用别人家孩子的长处比自己孩子的短处。父母忌讳数落孩子,或拿别人做榜样来教育孩子。如果孩子一时在某个方面失误了,他本来就很内疚,你再在他伤口上撒盐,拿隔壁孩子比较,其阴影有两个:自卑和仇视隔壁的孩子。 Families are the most important place to educate their children. For most Chinese parents with only one child, children have no experience in education. To realize their dream, there is no rehearsal. Therefore, when parents should be good at learning, summarize in time, master the wisdom of family education. Wisdom often help children analyze the situation, do not use the strengths of other children than their own child’s weaknesses. Parents taboo the number of children, or take others as role models to educate their children. If the child temporarily mistakes in some way, he had been very guilty, you then salt in his wounds, take next child comparison, the shadow of two: inferiority and hatred next door child.