国外心理学家通过一项对2万多名青春期孩子的研究发现:孩子在12岁以前很愿意与父母交谈,告诉他们自己的想法,之后就会有明显的变化。尽管父母对孩子的态度一如既往,但孩子有了问题和想法后,首先会选择与朋友谈,其次是老师,与父母交谈的次数和时间越来越少。许多家长 Foreign psychologists through a study of more than 20,000 adolescent children found that: children before the age of 12 are willing to talk with their parents and tell them their own ideas, then there will be significant changes. Despite their parents’ attitude toward their children, as always, when children have questions and thoughts, they first choose to talk with friends, followed by teachers, and the frequency of their conversation with their parents is less and less. Many parents