如果问孩子为什么对父母不满和对父母有什么要求时,常听到的回答是:父母不理解孩子的心愿,致使孩子不听话,不用心学习。如有的父母吩咐孩子做什么事情时,只顾自己方便,不管孩子是否愿意。常常是孩子刚坐下来学习, If you ask why children are dissatisfied with their parents and what their parents are asking, the answer they often hear is: Parents do not understand their children’s wishes, resulting in disobedient children, not learning. If any parents told children what to do, only to their own convenience, regardless of whether the child is willing. Often children just sit back and learn,