有句话说得好:“人生有两种境界,一种是痛而不言,一种是笑而不语。”在我看来,痛而不言与笑而不语都是一种无言之美。生活难免遭遇伤痛,与其哀声连连,喋喋不休地抱怨,不如默默自我疗伤,把累累伤痕当成生命赐给你的最好礼物。失意时,无言是一种豁达和智慧。落寞时,无言是一种调整和释放。美国作家马克·吐温说:“悲伤可以自行料理,而欢乐的滋味要充分体会,你就必须有人分享才行。”他的意思是说,悲伤自己处理,欢乐一定要与人分享。可我却以为,欢乐只能和爱 There is a saying goes well: “There are two realms of life, one is painless, one is laughing and not language. ” In my opinion, pain and laughter without words are a Speechless beauty. Life will inevitably suffer, with its cry again and again, chatter endless complaints, it is better to silently self-healing, the wounds as the best gift of life given to you. When frustrated, speechlessness is a kind of open-mindedness and wisdom. Lonely, silent is a kind of adjustment and release. Mark Twain, an American writer, said: “Sadness can be handled on its own, and the joy of taste to fully understand, you must have someone to share.” "He means that sadness to handle their own, joy must be shared with others. But I thought, joy can only love