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最近,电视剧《人民的名义》热播。剧中祁同伟和梁璐的婚姻,让无数人为之唏嘘。他们的结婚动机不纯,功利和报复皆有,唯有爱情匮乏,属于先天不足。所以,比祁同伟先死掉的,是他们的婚姻。除了常见的动机不纯型,生活中还有很多婚姻先天不足。一见钟情型。心理专家武志红说,恋爱有两个目的:重温童年的美好,修正童年的错误。出于重温童年的渴望,恋爱时,我们会在潜意识里寻找跟父母很像的伴侣。男孩找像妈妈的人,女孩找像爸爸的人。
Recently, the drama “People’s Name” hit. Qi and Wei in the drama and Liang Lu’s marriage, so many people sigh. Imprudent motives for their marriage, utilitarian and revenge Jieyou, only the lack of love, are inherent deficiencies. Therefore, Qi than Wei first died, is their marriage. In addition to the common motivational impotence, there are many marriages in life that are inherently deficient. Love at first sight type. Wu Chih-hsin, a psychologist, said that love has two purposes: to revisit the beauty of childhood and correct mistakes in childhood. Out of childhood desire, love, we will subconsciously find a partner with their parents. Boy looking for a mom, girl looking for a dad.