和陌生人第一次见面时,要如何在一开始谈话的几分钟内了解这个人?如何与对方拉近距离?如何找到对方喜爱的话题?如何让对方愿意开口?这都得依靠细心的观察。观察力可以靠后天练习练习你的观察力,最有效的方法之一是“回想游戏”。你可以在任何时候、任何地方练习。例如,当你走进一个房间 How to get closer to each other when you first meet with a stranger? How to get to know each other’s favorite topics? How to make each other willing to speak? It all depends on careful observation . Observational skills can be practiced by the day after tomorrow to exercise your observation, one of the most effective way is “recall game ”. You can practice anytime, anywhere. For example, when you walk into a room