晚饭的餐桌,是个热闹的讲台。母亲会发发在单位的牢骚,我自然给她当忠实听众;父亲则要刻意去恭维一下母亲熬粥的手艺,可母亲马上听出这是句反话,实则是挑剔她熬的粥太稠(chou)了,于是,不甘示弱,反唇相讥,唇枪舌剑,“战争”爆发。这时的我,最好安安静静地当“中立国”,偏袒(piantan)任何一方都没便宜占,更可能成为“众矢之的”。家里有不成文 Dinner table, is a lively podium. Mother will send hair in the unit's grievance, I naturally give her a loyal listener; father will deliberately compliment her mother porridge craft, but the mother immediately heard that this is the opposite, but in reality it is critical of her boil porridge too thick chou), then, to be outdone, retort opposite ridicule, flattery, “war” broke out. At this moment, it is best for me as a “neutral nation” in peace and quiet. No one in favor of piantan should be cheaper and more likely to become “a target of criticism.” There are unwritten home