做父母的经常会这样抱怨:现在的孩子真难管,管得太多了不行,不管更不行。我认为孩子尤其是幼儿,还不懂得事物的利害关系,所以做父母的必须管,但这种管不是“堵”而是“导”。儿子总想去摸亮着的电灯泡,我告诉过他,会烫手的,儿子不是记不住我的话,而是不太相信。那一次,我没有阻止他,儿子的手被烫了一下,他大 Parents often complain about this: the child is really hard now, too much control not work, no matter no more. I think children, especially young children, do not understand the interests of things, so parents must control, but this is not a “block” but “guide.” Son always wanted to touch the light bulb, I told him, will be hot, my son can not remember my words, but do not quite believe. That time, I did not stop him, my son’s hand was hot, he is big