在家庭教育中,现代家长必须警惕另一种“棍棒”教育——过度关怀,并努力走出“关爱强迫症”的泥潭。所谓“关怀强迫症”,即一个人特别需要别人依赖自己,总是爱向别人提供不需要的关怀。并且,这种人还强迫别人接受自己的关怀,从而使别人不能独立。当别人依赖自己的时候,他就会感 In family education, modern parents must be alert to another kind of “stick” education - over-caring and striving to get out of the quagmire of “caring for obsessive-compulsive disorder.” The so-called “obsessive-compulsive disorder”, that is, a person in particular need others to rely on themselves, always love to provide others with unwanted care. And such people also force others to accept their own care, so that others can not be independent. When someone depends on himself, he will feel