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父母是孩子的第一任老师,父母想要求孩子怎样,自己就应该先给孩子树立学习的榜样,陈鹤琴先生教导父母至少在以下7个方面以身作则。公平对待子女陈鹤琴先生发现在多子女家庭里存在父母对待子女不公平的现象,例如有的孩子容貌好一些、聪明一些,家长就偏爱他,让其他孩子感觉很不公平。真正爱子女,不应当偏爱子女,应以公平正直的态度对待子女。在孩子面前态度一致在教育孩子的时候,父母会存在意见不合的情况,但是当着子女的面不能争执不休。否则,不仅孩子会无所适从,还会引起他轻视父母之心。
Parents are the children’s first teachers. Parents should ask their children how to set up their own learning model. Chen Heqin taught parents at least the following seven aspects to lead by example. Equal treatment of children Chen Heqin found that in many families with children, parents treat their children unfair phenomena. For example, some children look better and smarter. Parents favor him and make other children feel very unfair. True love of children, should not favor children, should be treated with fairness and integrity of their children. In the same attitude towards children In the education of children, there will be differences in opinion of parents, but in the face of children can not dispute endlessly. Otherwise, not only will the child know what to do but he will also despise his parents.