当代的人害怕孤独、寂寞,故不想一个人待着。一有空闲的时间就去热闹的地方消遣时光,似乎喜欢“独处”的人少之又少。尤其是在我们当今这个商业化、娱乐化盛行的年代,想找一个安静的地方都是非常不容易的。所以,即便是很多有独处想法的人,到最后也随波逐流了,加入到热闹的人群之中,尽情地狂欢。也有的人害怕独处,就通过恋爱这种方式来消解内心的空虚与寂寞,让自己的空闲时间成为两个人的世界。古往今来有很多对爱情的赞美,也促进了人们对爱情的尽快拥有,如中国古代的“梁山伯与祝英台”、“许仙与白娘子”的故事,外国的电影《人鬼 Contemporary people are afraid of being alone and lonely, so they do not want to be alone. When you have free time to go to the lively part of the recreational time, it seems like “” alone “very few people. Especially in our era of commercialization and entertainment, the quest for a quiet place is not easy. Therefore, even many people who have their own ideas, to the end also drift, join the lively crowd, enjoy the carnival. Some people are afraid of being alone, through the love of this way to eliminate the emptiness and loneliness, so that my free time to become two people’s world. Since ancient times, there has been a lot of praise for love and also for the promotion of love as soon as possible. For example, in ancient China, ”Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai,“ ”Xu Xian and the White Snake,“ the story of a foreign film ”