有这样一个故事:从前有一对夫妻,男人耳聋,夫妻关系甚好。好心的妻子四处求医,最后治好了丈夫的耳聋病。按理说,他们的感情会百尺竿头更进一步,可万万没有料到,过了不久,丈夫就提出与妻子分手。原因是,他实在无法忍受妻子的唠叨。那么,作为女性,应如何避免唠叨呢?首先,应该克服自我表现欲和潜意识中统治对方的心理。女人唠叨大都是由生活琐事引起,理由常常是男人不关心自己啦,花钱大手大脚啦,不会做家务啦,回家晚啦,不关心孩子啦等等,用意原本是想引起他的重视。结果由于方法不对,不但达不到目的,反而令对方反感。心理研究成果表明:当载有新信息的语言第一 There is such a story: in the past there was a couple, men deaf, very good relationship between husband and wife. Kind wife seeking medical treatment, and finally cured her husband’s deafness. It stands to reason that their feelings will go one step further, but never expected, and soon after, her husband proposed to break up with his wife. The reason is that he really can not tolerate his wife’s nagging. So, as a woman, how to avoid nagging? First of all, self-expression should be overcome and subconsciously rule each other’s psychology. Women nagging mostly caused by the trivialities of life, the reasons are often men do not care about themselves, spend big deal, will not do housework friends, go home late, do not care about children, etc., intention was originally intended to arouse his attention . As a result of the wrong method, not only failed to achieve the purpose, but to make the other objectionable. Psychological research results show that: when the language contains the new information first