一戒以自己的习惯统一家庭。结婚后,双方都会有些陋习暴露出来,如床边有烟灰,牙膏挤得歪歪扭扭,乱扔脏袜子等。这些小毛病要相互容忍迁就,不必过多责怪对方,特别是做妻子的,并非一定要丈夫按照自己的方式生活,提醒丈夫下次注意就行。二戒经济问题独立自主。怎样花钱并不是一件小事,常有夫妻为金钱而不和。结婚前双方各花各的钱,养成了独立自主的习惯。婚后应把这些习惯改掉,在经济上树立家庭观念,共同磋商。合理安排,在经济条件不宽裕时,夫妻双方都应有些自制和忍耐,不要自作主张乱买东西。 A precept reunifies your family with your own habits. After marriage, both sides will be exposed some bad habits, such as bed ash, toothpaste squeezed crooked, littering socks and so on. These small problems should be tolerated to accommodate each other, do not have to blame each other too much, especially as a wife, not necessarily her husband in their own way of life, remind her husband the next attention on the trip. Second, the economic problems are independent. How to spend money is not a trivial matter, often couples for the money and not. Before the marriage each spent each money, developed an independent habit. After marriage, these habits should be removed, and the concept of family should be established economically and negotiated jointly. Reasonable arrangements, the economic conditions are not well-off, both husband and wife should be some self-control and patience, do not buy things on their own initiative.