这些日子总有学生跟我诉苦,说现在很难交到知心朋友,大家都不太习惯或者不太愿意甚至是不太敢交出真心,因为不知道别人是不是也能以诚相待。我发现这是个恶性循环,如果没有人先走出这一步,大家也许永远都没有机会了。那么我们为什么那么不舍得先付出真心呢?我们是在怕失去什么呢? There are always students complaining to me on these days, saying that it is difficult to reach close friends now. Everyone is not used to it or is not willing or even willing to give up sincerity, because they do not know whether others can treat each other with sincerity. I found this a vicious circle. If no one steps out of this step, everyone may never have a chance. Why are we so reluctant to pay the first thing? What are we afraid of losing?