从小,他和父亲之间的关系就很生疏。他和父亲都是沉默寡言的人,因此很少交流。后来下乡当了知青,进城后,到棉纺厂当了一名普通工人,这中间他吃了很多苦,但父亲从来没有问过他。他觉得父亲根本不关心他,也不爱他。偶尔,他回到家中,父亲顶多问一句“回来啦”、“吃过没有” Since childhood, his relationship with his father is very strange. He and his father are taciturn people, so little communication. Later went to the countryside as a young educated youth, into the city, went to the cotton mill as an ordinary worker, which he ate a lot of hardships, but his father had never asked him. He felt his father did not care about him, nor loved him. Occasionally, he returned home, at most his father asked “back,” “eaten without”