家庭教育的最佳状态是什么?在教育上,方法的力量是有限的,家长真正欠缺的不是方法,是状态。教育的最佳状态在于一个“养”字。现在孩子学习上的各种问题,归纳起来就是心力的不足,即心里面对学习热情不足。养鱼重在养水,养树重在养根,养人重在养心。如果一个孩子的心在家里面得不到养护,得不到有效的滋养,天赋的聪明就没有基础;智商再高,没有恰当的、相应的心态支撑,天赋很难发挥。我们先不讲孩子的心如何,先看看养孩子心的人,也就是父母的 What is the best status of family education? In education, the power of the method is limited, parents are not the real way, is the state. The best education is in a “raise” word. Now children learn all kinds of problems, summed up the lack of effort, that is, the heart of the lack of enthusiasm for learning. Aquaculture focuses on water, raising trees focus on raising roots, raising people in the heart. If a child’s heart can not be conserved in the house and can not be nourished effectively, there is no foundation for the cleverness of talent. If the IQ is high and there is no proper and corresponding mentality support, talent is hard to play. Let us not talk about the child’s heart first, take a look at raising children’s heart, that is, parents