了解一个孩子,需要的就是没有那么多冷静思考的天马行空式的、添加了想象力的、不受限制的思维。许多心理学家认为,孩子的话直接反映出孩子潜意识的认知,是对事物的一种原发性的体察,与梦的活动机制非常相似。一个男孩和妈妈说:“我有两个妈妈,一个妈妈是好妈妈,已经死了,在天上;另一个妈妈就是现在的妈妈,是坏妈妈。”他为什么会这样说?在小孩子看来,妈妈就是母爱的象征。好妈妈是自己心目中 To understand a child, what is needed is that there is not so much to think calmly and unconstrainedly, adding imaginative and unrestricted thinking. Many psychologists believe that the child’s words directly reflect the children’s subconscious awareness, is a primary observation of things, and the dream of the mechanism is very similar. A boy and mother said: “I have two moms, one mom is a good mom, already dead, in the sky; another mom is the present mom, is a bad mom. ” Why did he say this? It seems that mother is a symbol of maternal love. Good mother is in his mind