恨铁不成钢,急死亲爹娘,这话一点儿也不假。高投入的目的是为了高产出,这是人们心理平衡的自然反映。可是,许多父母却遗憾的发现,自己是高投入低产出,甚至产出了相反的东西。于是,父母们便恼怒起来。 父母的恼怒往往先用语言发泄,而因为是恼怒就什么都说,越说越狠。譬如,孩子做了错 Do not hate iron steel, urgently father and mother, these words are not false at all. The purpose of high investment is to high output, which is the natural reflection of people’s psychological balance. However, many parents find it regrettable that they are high input and low output and even produce the opposite. So, parents will be angry. The parents’ annoyance often expresses in words first, but because it is angry, they say anything and say more and more ruthlessly. For example, the child made a mistake