常有人问我是如何指导孩子读书的。这确实是个问题。如今的书不是少,而是多得几近泛滥且鱼龙混杂,而孩子的时间是有限的,大多时间又被繁重而无奈的学习考试所占用(孩子一般比我们大人都忙),为孩子选择有用又有益的书来读,是每个做家长都会重视的事情。我的孩子从读小学到中学12年的读书经历,我是遵循着这样原则的,即有我和孩子之间形成的不成文的读书五戒—— I am often asked how to guide children to study. This is indeed a problem. Nowadays the book is not less, but more or less spread and cohabitation, and the child’s time is limited, most of the time and heavy and helpless learning exams occupied (children are generally more busy than we adults), useful for children to choose Another useful book to read, is that every parent will pay attention to things. My child’s 12-year study experience from primary school to secondary school follows the principle that there is an unwritten book of precepts between me and my child -