夫妻离婚后,有的抚养孩子的一方就经常教育孩子:你的父亲(或母亲)的心是怎么怎么地狠,人是怎么怎么地坏,教孩子从心底里痛恨对方,试图彻底割断孩子与另一方的感情纽带。这种教孩子恨的做法,实际上是很不明智的,它不但不利于孩子心理的健康成长,也不利于与抚养者自身的情感建立。首先,这种教育方法会使孩子产生一种严重的嫉恨心理。抚养的一方经常在孩子面前说对方怎么不 After the divorce, some of the child-raising children often educate their children: how the heart of your father (or mother) is ruthless, how people are bad, teaching children to hate each other from the bottom of their hearts, trying to completely cut off the children The other side of the emotional bond. This practice of teaching children hate is actually very unwise, it is not only not conducive to the healthy growth of children’s psychological, but also not conducive to raising their own feelings and establish. First of all, this method of education can cause children to have a serious hate psychology. The side of support often says in front of children why not each other