耐心倾听胜于滔滔不绝要促进亲子关系,增加亲子沟通很重要的两个字,就是“倾听”。做父母的人往往滔滔不绝,自以为是,却忽略了听听孩子要表达的究竟是什么。真正的倾听有几个技巧:一、重述孩子的话:在人类的语言发展上,不论孩子和大人,都会有些不完整的地方,有时夸大,有时自己所说的自己都不了解。所以重述孩子的话,可以使孩子再次听听自己所说的内容,而有机会加以修整。“妈妈,哥哥老是欺负我。”“哦!哥哥老是欺负你啊?”“不是啦!哥哥有时候欺负我。”其实是哥哥刚才不小心撞了他一下。二、以自己所听所理解的意思改句子:“妈妈,班上 Listening patiently is better than saying that it is important to promote parent-child relationship and increase parent-child communication. Parents are often endless, self-righteous, but ignored the children to listen to what exactly is to say. Really listen to a few tips: First, repeat the child’s words: in human language development, both children and adults, there will be some incomplete place, sometimes exaggerated, and sometimes do not know what they said. So restating your child’s words can make the child listen again to what he’s saying, and have the chance to trim it. ”“ ”“ Oh! Brother always bullied you? ”“ Not! Brother sometimes bully me. ”In fact, his brother just accidentally hit him a bit. Second, to understand what they are listening to change the sentence: "Mom, in class