常听不少父母抱怨:现在的孩子真是不像话,好好地同他讲道理,他却不以为然,道理比你还多,有时还把父母的话看成是毫无意义的唠叨。那么,问题的症结究竟在哪里呢?一位教育专家说得好:“没有不听话的孩子,只有不会说话的父母。”在现实生活中,有些父母在与孩子沟通时,只顾宣泄自己的情绪,缺乏对孩子个性的了解和起码的尊重,不注意说话的方式和方法,结果使孩子产生排斥、逆反心理,导致彼此沟通受阻。那么,父母如何说才能使孩子乐意听呢? Many parents often complain: Now the child is really outrageous, good reason to speak with him, but he disagreed, the reason more than you, and sometimes the words of their parents as pointless nagging. Well, what exactly is the crux of the problem? An education expert puts it well: “There are no disobedient children and only non-speaking parents.” In real life, some parents only give vent to their communication with their children Own emotions, lack of understanding of the child’s personality and minimal respect, do not pay attention to the way and means of speaking, the result is to make children reject, rebellious, leading to communication blocked. So, how can parents make children willing to listen to it?