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最近,我请班上52位家长和孩子分别填写了这样一份调查表,内容是:孩子最喜欢的课程、孩子最大的兴趣爱好、孩子最崇拜的人、孩子最大的烦恼、孩子的理想。经统计发现,上列五项调查内容中,家长和孩子所填结果一致的人数分别为:17、11、3、5、9。望着这些数据,我心里沉甸甸的。在日常生活中,我们的家长对孩子内心世界的了解太少了!可以想象,这种状态下的家庭教育是多么的苍白无力。为什么会出现这种现象呢?我与家长和孩子们进行了座谈,结果他们的答案几乎是一致的:平常家长与孩子的交流,尤其是心灵的沟通太少了。
Recently, I asked the parents and children of the class to fill out a questionnaire containing the following topics: children’s favorite courses, children’s greatest interests and hobbies, children’s most adored people, children’s biggest troubles, children’s ideals. According to the statistics, among the above five surveys, the numbers of parents and children who filled in the same results are: 17,11,3,5,9 respectively. Looking at these figures, my heart heavy. In our daily life, our parents know too little about the inner world of their children! It is conceivable how weak the family education in this state is. Why did this happen? I talked to parents and children. As a result, their answers were almost the same: the communication between ordinary parents and their children, and especially their spiritual communication, was too little.