我们发现,有的幼儿在幼儿园里时,很听话,表现不错,可是在家里却不听家长的话,甚至胡搅蛮缠,对父母非常无礼。为什么在幼儿园里的好宝宝,在家里却是个为所欲为的“小霸王”?幼儿这种行为不一的现象引起我们的深思。通过调查了解,我们认为,造成这一情况,不能简单地归咎是幼儿的道德问题,而大都是因为幼儿园和家庭在其教育要求上不一致,使幼儿生活在矛盾的环境中,造成行为的不一。因此要改变这一情况,教师和家长、教师之间、长辈之间教育的要求态度方法必须统一。 We found that when a child was in kindergarten, he was obedient and performed well. But at home, he did not listen to his parents and was even rude and rude to his parents. Why is a good baby in kindergarten, but at home is a “small bully”? The behavior of young children of this phenomenon caused us to ponder. Through investigation, we believe that this situation can not be simply attributed to young children’s moral problems, but mostly because kindergartens and families are not consistent in their educational requirements, so that young children living in a contradictory environment, resulting in inconsistent behavior . Therefore, to change this situation, teachers and parents, teachers, elders education requirements attitude must be unified.