著名的心理学家杰丝·霍耳在《孩子,我并不完美,我只是真实的我》一书中写道:“称赞对温暖人类的灵魂而言,就象阳光一样,没有它,我们就无法成长开花。但我们大多数的人只是敏于躲避别人的冷言冷语,而我们自己却吝于把赞许的温暖阳光给予别人。”翻开历史名人传,你会发现几乎全是由称赞鼓励的真正魅力来做令人动心的注脚的。 Jesse Hall, a famous psychologist, wrote in his book “Children, I’m not perfect, I’m just the real one,” wrote: “Praising is like warming the human soul, like the sun, without it, and we We will not be able to grow and blossom, but most of us are just sensitive to dodging others, and we ourselves are too generous to give the warmth of praise to others. ”Turning historical celebrities into account, you will find almost all praise and encouragement The real charm to do the exciting footnote.